Parenting has always been topics in recent years, looking at the figures of more children were spoiled than helped in a family. In fact, many parents are out of control, allowing the kids to manipulate and take charge of the situation, simply by falling into the unreasonable sympathy shown by the kids. I would prefer to raise my kids to be more self reliant, independent, and self sustaining.
I am not a BIG FAN of parents who put the blame on the children for their slow progressive, non productive, spoiled lifestyle and dependent children. Why?
The reason is YOU, as YOU mean PARENTS. Now here are some of the Etiologies (the study of causation/origination):-
1. Failure of parents to enforce consistent & appropriate-age limit freedom
2. Parents shielding the child from normal everyday frustrations.
3. Provision of excessive material gifts, even when the child has not behaved properly
4. Improper role models provided by parents.
The etiologies, shows the SPOILED CHILD SYNDROME has been increasingly noticed in the population and many never realized the impact that causes to the community indirectly. In fact these kids will have a tough future and the future has been decided and molded by YOU for not restricting certain things based on their age limit. I realized one more thing is that, parents were more concern to have the kids cater their needs
more than preparing them to face the real world.
It is very sad to look at some parents who have got no control of their children’s attitude and lifestyle. Watching them coming back home late at night when they are suppose to study/sleep. Watching them demand for things and living in their own world, pretty much ego-centric I would say.
If these are not corrected now, then the funny world out there awaits for these spoiled brats so that others could fool them and benefit out of them.
I am not here to say to HATE your kids. Then again, how can you allow your kids to take charge of the situation and please them with all the materials /provision in the world not letting them feel what YOU as a parents going through to earn for living.
I would say this to conclude my short article,“Never underestimate a parent's ability to mortify his child.”
With Love,
Prakash Naidu
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