To Help or To Spoil Children ~ Parenting 2011

Parenting has always been topics in recent years, looking at the figures of more children were spoiled than helped in a family.  In fact, many parents are out of control, allowing the kids to manipulate and take charge of the situation, simply by falling into the unreasonable sympathy shown by the kids. I would prefer to raise my kids to be more self reliant, independent, and self sustaining.

I am not a BIG FAN of parents who put the blame on the children for their slow progressive, non productive, spoiled lifestyle and dependent children. Why?

The reason is YOU, as YOU mean PARENTS. Now here are some of the Etiologies (the study of causation/origination):-

1. Failure of parents  to enforce consistent & appropriate-age limit freedom

      2. Parents shielding the child from normal everyday frustrations.

      3. Provision of excessive material gifts, even when the child has not behaved properly

      4. Improper role models provided by parents.

The etiologies, shows the SPOILED CHILD SYNDROME has been increasingly noticed in the population and many never realized the impact that causes to the community indirectly. In fact these kids will have a tough future and the future has been decided and molded by YOU for not restricting certain things based on their age limit. I realized one more thing is that, parents were more concern to have the kids cater their needs 

more than preparing them to face the real world.

It is very sad to look at some parents who have got no control of their children’s attitude and lifestyle. Watching them coming back home late at night when they are suppose to study/sleep. Watching them demand for things and living in their own world, pretty much ego-centric I would say.  

If these are not corrected now, then the funny world out there awaits for these spoiled brats so that others could fool them and benefit out of them.

I am not here to say to HATE your kids. Then again, how can you allow your kids to take charge of the situation and please them with all the materials /provision in the world not letting them feel what YOU as a parents going through to earn for living. 

I would say this to conclude my short article,“Never underestimate a parent's ability to mortify his child.” 

With Love,

Prakash Naidu 

PEOPLE with ATTITUDE

It annoys a person so much, especially when you have human with ghastly attitude. Ghastly attitude referred to a person who naturally been brought up (screwed up background) with intensely unpleasant character that irritates not only their circle of friends but also the society.

Now having few people on my mind, listing the names will not going to help me either. I’m truly blessed to have such people around me to keep me entertained and my blog for sure not going to be boring since these people filled with an awful attitude allows others to learn from it.  

Family background do plays an important role in shaping a person personality and attitude. Sometimes it is sad to see some people from a broken family without proper guidance having complexity adapting the social life where most of the time they will get involve into troubles. That doesn’t mean people not from a broken family do not have terrible attitude. Studies have indicated that some people from a broken family do have the traits of having awful attitude due to the insecure, wobbly, unsteady, changeable and erratic state of mind.

This kind of people are very racist, temperamental, rude, hostile, unpredictable, untrustworthy, risky and most of all seeking for an ‘ATTENTION’. It is easy to identify such people since their movement very much noticeable. This awful people will seek for attention, attempt to gain sympathy. (eeeuuuyyyyucks to even look at them at times).

It is hard to mingle around with those unpredictable people as they have the tendency to be in mood swing. On top of that, this people are very selfish and rude, thinking that they are the best.

‘Respect’ is far way out of their mind, not knowing how to have a good PR (Public Relation), even if they do know what it means, I’m pretty sure they do not know how it supposed to be applied in their daily life. Being ruthless to others, is the other way those attitude people trying to seek attention from others. They tend to be finicky when they need something to be done for their own benefits, otherwise mean.

 It is sad to see those people having such an awful attitude living life as it is thinking that is normal. It is miserable to watch them feeling so insecure, always recruit others to tag along with them and be beside them all the time. The fear of losing friends and close love ones constantly cling in their mind. Due to that insecure mental state and feelings, they tend to poison others or I would say influence others surrounding them with negative remarks. Nothing from their mouth echo good words, it always causes others to get hurt. Eventually this type of people will have very small group of friends who willing to listen to their grandfather’s stories. Some people call them ‘Tin Kosong”

If the message written on the walls is clear enough, I’m sure there will be changes otherwise; I will be expecting clown in action entertaining me from time to time.

Till then….

 One, Two, Three, Roll the Camera and Aaaactionnnnnn…….