Gossip Bird - The Lady Who Gossip

"There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us, that it ill behaves any of us to find fault with the rest of us. " Quoted by James Truslow Adams

I want all of you who are reading this blog to ask the following questions to yourselves. How many times in a day do you gossip about someone? Did you ever complained about your colleagues or workplace on Facebook (directly or indirectly)? Was it fun during the gossiping session?

During my one hour meal break at work, all I could do was complain while stuffing food in my mouth. As I was complaining about something, someone’s name came up and I end up gossiping about that person. Guess what! I enjoyed doing that. As I was in the lift after my break all I could think was ‘Damn Bloody Hell, I Suck’.

The next few hours, I was just hoping and praying that the person I gossiped with would not tell anyone what I have told. This is when I got sudden enlightenment and I came up with an equation.

Gossip + Judgemental = Anxiety and Stress (Followed by migraine and stomach ache) =Possible Trouble in Future

It is not only me but many of us gossip and this could be done by us unknowingly. The most surprising thing is that, some us even gossip or being judgemental on Facebook status thinking that it is cool. This includes complaining about workplace or our colleagues. I have read a post by someone that mentioned her company is racist since they hire people from a certain ethnic background more than people from her race. I mean how stupid are you to post something like that when your colleague may read this.

Siapa makan Cili, dia rasa pedas (I can feel the heat myself J being honest here!!).

 Trust me, it’s not cool at all when your boss give you a dismissal letter and a possible kick in you’re a** when he reads your post.

After much analysis and research, I came to a very simple conclusion where everybody knows but ignores it : Talking about someone when he or she is not present ain’t awesome and it can 'Belakang Api (please translate in English J)' you. Beware!!

This message is brought to you by Kanchini (Ding Dong)..

Prakash Naidu & Kanchini Sekaran In Love

Love Exist and that is why we have decided to present this blog on our love story to you all out there. Don't ever lose hope or ever think that it happens only in fairytale stories. Let this story be an inspiration to all that is already in love, looking for love as well as to the ones who hates love :) Happy reading.

Kanchini and I met via Facebook & Instant messenger back in 2009. We were friends for a great few months before we became a couple back in early December 2009. We finally met in person on the 5th December 2009 after 4 years of her student life back in London, UK. It is the most remarkable and historical date for the both of us.

Neither of us was expecting to fall in love online, but yet here we are telling you our story.

This is the story of our first meeting.

Love rocks people....

“It was a beautiful morning of November 13th, I got the news that she's (Kanchini) back to Malaysia after months of Facebook-ing & IM's. The moment that, I have waited for months has arrived. Those were the days where every minutes feels like an hour, every hour feels like a day, every day feels like forever...We decided to meet & I traveled 320km just to have a special day out with her. I got lost immediately.

Finally when I reached her place, in the middle of the road was her dad in shorts, pasted with the look that says ' Is this the dude?'. My heart almost came out through my mouth. I had to swallow it back to show my macho-ness and asked her dad permission to take her out. Her family spoke something in Telugu which sounded like they gonna bash me up any minute. Finally with a smile from her parents I manage to steal her away for the day.

The two of us immediately talk all kind of stories without a pinch of awkwardness. We went to the Curve and she was so 'jakon' since she has never been there. She can claims KL as her first boyfriend when she hasn't even been to the Curve. Every building she saw she was just jumping with exciting. I wonder, is she from UK or Ulu Kelang. Opps, shoes gonna fly later. hehe..

Well, later in the evening I took her to Al-Andalus. God, this woman can really talk. She was on an on with stories and I was shaking inside. Wonder why people? Coz I have a plan. I took her there and we talk more and finally I took her to lamp post and ask her to close her eyes. She was nervous but eventually she followed my instruction. I took out a tiny box and asked her to be my girlfriend. This time not only my heart wanted to come out but my intestines as well was threatening to do so... She must have thought of the entire place I chose a lamp pose.

She was shocked and could not say a word. After a couple of torturous minutes she said she has to think. I was just relieved as if I completed my Life's toughest exam not bothered whether I failed or passed. I took her back home and again there was no awkwardness. I felt very sad that I have to go back but I did not have any chose.

Exactly on the 5th of December she agreed to be my girlfriend. Yahoo!!! Life could not be sweeter after that. Till date we love each other without expectation