Showing posts with label Karenjit Kaur. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Karenjit Kaur. Show all posts

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Were You Born To Lead or To Follow ?

With My Love & Life ^KanchiniSekaran^
I do come across meeting up many people, particularly people from the corporate world. I observed few elements along my journey and it is interesting to know that there are many leaders out there.


Sadly, not many leaders have effective skills as they are bound to Follow instead of taking the Lead. Now, to define Lead is something more than giving someone an order, or pointing finger, or isn't just bossing people around. It is more than this !


To Lead, it demands a lot of responsibilities, dedication, managing the team well, and top of all is staff engagement or I would spelled it as understanding. 


Many leaders fail to understand that workplace engagement do plays a major role in resulting excellent output/results by keeping the employees happy. Sometimes, dollar & cents is not the issue. It backs to understanding each and other. I mean management-staff relationship. When such environment takes place, clearly shows the Leader were born to Follow and not To Lead. 


Follow, as in getting instructions and redirecting the instruction to the employees, which every Tom, Dick & Harry could practice that. I don't have to work for years to be there, probably, 1 week training will do.!


Get down, hands on, manage, communicate, troubleshoot together, investigate, identify, resolving issues, seek for solution, and all the mentioned above is related to staff welfare not work pertaining issues.


Leaders are meant to keep the team happy and the team's duty is to resolved the jobs problem/issues. Now if the team is Not well taken care, the Leader's will need to do the staff's job. So, now I see the point why there are so many inefficient leaders around claiming that they have a lot of works to do. When they actually don't have to.


Leadership abilities comes naturally to some, but for many, it has to be Honed and Developed. I truly understand that Leaders are Made not Born! Leadership skills are acquired  over a period of time based on several factors:


Seven Leadership Skills:

1. Leaders come in all different shapes and sizes. It is interesting to study effective leaders. At face value they are all different. They all have developed their own style based on their own personality and what works for them. 

2. A true leader accepts responsibility. Everything from how they speak to how they act is part of being responsible. It is easy to follow them because you know where they are going and know they will lead you as well. 

3. Leaders work at being leaders. They are always improving their skills and learning from the situations they are in. They study people and have learned how to effectively interact with them to get what they want. 

4. Leadership starts at the top, but is best achieved when developing a team atmosphere. Leaders know they can do better when people are working together for one common goal. Sharing in leadership is part of this process. Making everyone accountable for what they do, but judging success on the overall efforts of everyone. 

5. Situations call for different types of leadership. A well-rounded leader is able to adapt to their surroundings and lead accordingly. Coaching a football team is an example of this. Sometimes the players need a kick in the rear and other times they need a pat on the back. 

6. Leaders are respected for what they have accomplished in the past. A real leader can speak from a position of practical experience and know they will be listened to because they speak from that vantage point. A respected leader is able to command more from his people than a leader who is not. 

7. Leaders seek opinions and compile ideas before forming a game plan. Good leaders know that they cannot come up with every idea that will work. By allowing input they are able to make a more responsible decision. 



Highlighted in blue, is my strong points for leadership. 

We all know from the beginning, the days when the Great Mohandas Gandhi quoted " I suppose leadership at one time meant Muscles; but today it means getting along with people" 


That's all for today....Cheers to all Leaders and future leaders.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Baby Reesheka Kaur Says.....



The month of March 2011, had the most beautiful compilation of amazing moments. The month, I celebrate, my wife's birthday, the month where we got registered/engage and one amazing soul brought to the world.

Reesheka Kaur, that's what we called her.......

Let me put myself into her shoes and tell a little bit of her stories....& here we go...

I swim, I float, I move, I play and its like a marathon for the past 9 months. Then finally, I crossed the finishing line on the 21st March 2011.
 I remember watching a man and a  lady feeling so excited for me, then I realize there are my parents. My concern at that time was to get more rest since I was floating all the time and now they want me to breathe the air but not liquid.
 So I kept myself silent and cries sometimes, to let my parents know that I'm there with them. Honestly, it is not easy to be an INFANT. Being a newborn for few hours causing me lot of problem.

Firstly, they don't get what I say ( crying), Secondly, I was forced to drink when I not hungry, Thirdly, there were too many people around me, I felt stuffy. I need some break after my long journey, can't these people understand me. Damn....they couldn't understand my language...I don't blame them....
 Well now, months passed by and I 'm almost 1 year's old. There are a lot of changes, I started to understand some sign language my mom and dad always  play with. I recognizes my own name.....I crawled, I started to walk....
 I like the when people buy me toys, colorful ones, dresses and I'm obsessed for hand bags.




 I remember these two couples, whom my dad & mom always with..I guess so called Bestie Friendie.

If I'm not mistaken thats Uncle Prakash & Aunty Kanchini. Pretty annoying thou seeing them quite often and my parents away with them often as well..Come on..of course I will get jealous....

Anyway its's ok, Uncle Prakash & Aunty Kanchini not that bad, coz they buy me stuff...like a lot of stuff....I have Patrick(the teddy bear) for me to hug & sleep, some weird toys and I remember Uncle Prakash mentioning that he will buy some kinda huge play ground thingy for me....Well lets wait and see....

I envy Aunty Kanchini very much, she has got some gorgeous handbags...I love the GUESS purple handbag...I tried to get into the bag one day, but failed coz my mom Ms.Karenjit Kaur spank me from the back...

I heard Uncle Prakash bought a new handbag for Aunty Kanchini...I hope the bag will land to my hand one day. Anybody knows the brand..??? Coz I heard from my daddy, Mr. Hayma Kumar it was a 'COACH' handbag.

I shall use my charm to get a handbag from Uncle Prakash one day...I know he loves me alot and I'm sure he will get me one....Not much...maybe for my first day of my school....

That's all for now peeps....21st March 2012 coming soon...Do not forget my Birthday people....

Love,

Baby Reesheka Kaur via Uncle's Prakash & Aunty Kanchini's Blog






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Bestie Friend
Kumar & Karen - I dedicate this small little stories on behalf of Reesheka....One day she also wanna know what all happen... So there is something for her to laugh one fine day....atleast she will be thinking how dumb Uncle Prakash is....the Aunty Kanchini will get all the attention.....




Monday, November 15, 2010

Simply Friendship



When I first met Kumar at workplace I addressed him as 'Anne' knowing that he was my senior. The exact word from his mouth was ' Hey don't call me anne la, I am about you age only. Call me bro'. I guess he said that since Bro sounds more standard/cool than anne.

Since than, whenever we have the chance to be in the same shift, we chat as we do our work (Mind you, We do our work!!!!). As the days and months pass by, we were like 'Wow, Dude, we are like 'sama kepala la'. We discovered friendship during our learning process. He was very generous when it comes to teaching/correcting me in regards to work. I on the other hand, shares my self development ideas to him.

I and Kanchini had the chance to be there on his special day from begining till the end. That 's the first time we met Karen. After their honeymoon, I met the newly-wed couples again. Karen is as funny as Kumar. I remember saying this to me, 'Prakash, I don't how to cook yet. Come next year I will cook for you ok'.

We than started to hang out as couples. I was glad that Kanchini and Karen could get along but I did not see what they could do together. They were bullying me and Kumar to the max!!! The men had no choice but to shut our mouth and 'anguk-anguk' kepala only (What a shame!).

A friend in need is a friend indeed and that's how I describe Kumar. He has been there when I need a favour. Thanx dude (Manly handshake).Not to forget, a HUGE THANKS to Karen for showing care and was there from time to time for Kanchini when she was admitted.

Glad that the year 2010 ended with a new brotherhood friendship.